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Approach

2 essays on this topic.

Dating

Scarcity Mindset in Dating: Why You Should Approach Anyway

Scarcity mindset in dating: why the obvious advice (stop approaching, fix yourself first) is wrong, and what actually breaks the pattern from inside.

M10 min · May 11

Dating

Where to Meet Women: Why Bars Still Win After 12 Years

Where to meet women if you want fast progress? After 12 years of approaching, the honest answer is still bars. Here's why the anti-bar gospel is wrong.

M9 min · May 5
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