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Dating

Where to Meet Women: Why Bars Still Win After 12 Years

Where to meet women if you want fast progress? After 12 years of approaching, the honest answer is still bars. Here's why the anti-bar gospel is wrong.

M9 min · May 5

Inner Work

The Year I Stopped Chasing Women I Didn't Actually Like

For three years I confused 'she's hard to get' with 'she's worth getting.' Here's the diary of the year that pattern broke — and what I found underneath the chase.

M14 min · Apr 27
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